Mom decided today to go into hospice care because she's in so much pain and just doesn't want to go on living. The staff at the rehab center is supporting her decision, as are my brother and I. A lot of the day was dealing with paperwork and getting her set up, which just happens to be at the same facility. The hospice social worker and nurses were very helpful guiding mom through the switch from rehab care to hospice care. There will always be someone to answer questions and tweak pain medication as needed to keep her comfortable. I'll be here until Tuesday when I return to Portland, but told mom that I can return at a moment's notice if she wants, and she's okay with that.
Rick
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Rick, I did this with my own Mom this last July. She was comfortable through out the entire process. We were all there and she could acknowledge us until the end. Trust her decision, and do not get too far away, as the end will come sooner than you realize. Best to you and I / We will be thinking good thoughts for you all.
sorry to hear she is not doing well - the hospice folks I have been around here in San antonio have been wonderful, caring individuals, and I would think that would be true of hospice staff wherever you are - they are indeed very special people -
best to you
John
best wishes for your mum and you
I am so sorry about your mother, but glad you are all in agreement with and supportive of her decision. Nonetheless, this must be a very difficult time; know that we're thinking of you all.
This is real tough. My best wishes!
It truly should be up to the person who is ill... You're doing what she wants, and sometimes that's rare.
Good thoughts, and positive light for you, Rick. Add some warm hugs!
Angel, I am Mickey Collins from Joburg South Africa.
I have a doctor friend in London who told me that Hospice is the best possible place for people who have accepted where they ar at. He says that it is transitioning from one light to a higher light, and agrees that, especially for older folk, medical services want to milk them for as much as they can get prior to their going....
All strength to you and your family. I was hands on with my bro as he passed in Hospice Benoni. It was sad, but at the same time releasing......
I'll Light Candles for Mom....
Shabat Shalom
Love & Light
Mickey
These are the moments we all dread in life, but it sounds like you, your brother and your Mom are prepared and well cared for. My heart goes out to you.
So sorry, buddy. Thinking of you...
So sorry to learn about your mother! I'm sure that she is in good hands and will be taken good care of where she is. Lots of very positive vibes to you!
Everyone - Thank you all very much for your kind words and thoughts.
Rick, Just wanted to say how sorry I am and that I understand and defend your mom, brothers and your joint decision and courage. Peace is better than prolonged suffering. All the best.
Jeff
Love, best wishes and thoughts with you and all your family....Robby from the UK...
Thinking of you & your mum at this time, Similar happened with my own mum 4 years ago so I know how you're feeling. Best wishes. John, London UK.
I hope the best for your mother and hope you will stay strong to support her. Best wishes. I know how you feel. I lost my mother a few years ago and it still hurts.
Just stopping by to let you know I'm thinking of you. Sending light and positive thoughts - and more hugs. We can always use hugs!
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